Do you know what I think is the hardest thing about trying to forgive ourselves after a narcissistic relationship?
It’s this – We knew…
Behind the rose-colored glasses, somewhere deep down our gut was churning.
We heard the alarm bells, yet for some reason, we proceeded and kept reconnecting anyway.
Why on EARTH did we keep trying?
And how do we come to terms with putting our trust in someone that wreaked havoc on us and possibly many of those close to us?
I personally believe this is one of the hardest (if not the hardest) thing to get past in order to achieve a true recovery from narcissistic abuse …
Forgiving ourselves …
Soooo … how can we achieve this?
I actually don’t believe contemporarily it IS possible unless you are some rare alien species of human who is able to!